Okay, let’s face it. Hindu weddings are a whirlwind of colour, chaos, and a whole lot of family drama (but in a good way, usually).
They’re like a Bollywood movie marathon, only with way more food and even louder music.
But underneath all the dancing and selfie-taking, each ritual has a meaning that goes way back.
So, whether you’re the stressed-out bride-to-be, the groom wondering why everyone keeps throwing turmeric at him, or just a guest trying to figure out what’s happening, this guide is your BFF.
Pre-Wedding Rituals
Engagement (Roka/Sagai): This is where it all officially starts! Two families awkwardly meet, exchange gifts (and maybe some side-eye), and seal the deal with rings (or maybe a family heirloom if you’re lucky). Think of it like a preview for the main event, only with less dancing and more nervous laughter.
Haldi: This is the yellow party you have to have! This turmeric ritual is meant to bless the couple with glowing skin, but let’s be real, it’s mostly an excuse to have fun and maybe get a little revenge on your siblings. Just be prepared for the turmeric stains – they don’t come out easily!
Mehndi: Time to get inked! Henna designs cover the bride’s hands and feet, bringing good luck and Instagram-worthy photos. Plus, it’s a great way to pass the time while your mom stresses about the guest list.
The Wedding Day
Baraat: It’s the groom’s time to shine! He arrives with his entourage, dancing, singing, and maybe even showing off a few dance moves he learned from TikTok. It’s a mobile party, and you don’t want to miss it.
Kanyadaan: Cue the waterworks! This is the part where everyone gets teary-eyed. The bride’s parents officially give her away, and you can bet there will be some emotional speeches (and maybe even a few ugly cries).
Pheras: The most important part! The couple takes seven rounds around the sacred fire, making promises that hopefully, they’ll remember after all the wedding cake. This is the moment when it becomes real, and you can practically feel the love in the air.
Mangalsutra and Sindoor: The groom ties a necklace (mangalsutra) around the bride’s neck and puts vermillion powder (sindoor) on her forehead. These are the official “we’re hitched” symbols in the Hindu tradition.
Post-Wedding Rituals
Vidaai: Time for goodbyes and even more waterworks. The bride leaves her family home, and everyone pretends they won’t be calling her every day for cooking tips (but let’s be honest, they totally will).
Reception: The party’s officially started! Everyone gets their groove on, eats way too much delicious food, and tries to figure out the latest Bollywood dance moves. It’s a dance-off to see who can out-Bollywood the bride and groom.
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